Mouth dropped. Sad. Defeated. Heartbroken. Lost. Dead inside. You ever experienced a break up that shattered your entire world? Catches you blindside and you’re left in shock. Especially in this pandemic, you can’t run from the pain. This break up can be from romantic relationships, business relationships, or friendships, it doesn’t matter. Once you feel that sudden shock, you go through 5 stages of grief which are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. However, something happens in one of those stages. That something is massive success and it is the best revenge of all time.
There is so much beauty in starting over again. Finding your identity again and making it way better than what it was before. But, where do you start? You start with, wait for it……….YOU! What do you want in life? What do you want in your next partnership? The best part about identifying what you want is it can be anything. There are no wrong answers except if you’re hoping for physical superpowers. But, how can you start finding out what you want in life and your next partnership? Read on and find out.
Simplicity Is Thy Key
Keep it simple by making a list. One of my favorite books, Never Eat Alone, by Keith Ferrazzi inspired me to be a list freak. I started listing out the things I want in life, and doing the work to achieve those things that I wanted didn’t feel like work at all. Life is a lot easier when you have your eyes set on a prize and you are reminded every single day because of your list. Do this exercise and watch how much more motivated you will become. Read on and look at the exercise.
List To Bliss
Entrepreneurs need to find joy in their journey and it’s hard for them to do so. However, what I will share with you will help you not only find joy in the journey to entrepreneur success but in life. Start with a list that has all of the goals you want to achieve. The goals can be anything, big or small, it doesn’t matter. Then create another list that has all of the things you enjoy in life. Connect the two lists. Which hobby that you enjoy will help you achieve a goal. Fun right?! Last but not least, create a list of all the things that you ALREADY accomplished. This little list is a mind hack because you’ll be motivated to get $^%# done.
It’s not over until the fat lady sings. Start becoming great NOW!
Dominic Cruz is a dating coach that specializes in helping men and women get over their breakups. So that they can be more at peace and be fulfilled to find hope in relationships again. Dominic thought of helping others, once he realized that sharing his stories was helping people. Today, he continues to help young men and women with his YouTube videos, keynote speeches, and his new book, 10 Simple Tips To Get Over Your Ex.